The Bookhive List: 'Middlesex' by Jeffrey Eugenides

There have been many posts on The Bookhive List, and there will be many more, but if I had to narrow it down to a top-five type situation, Middlesex would sit comfortably on that list.  It is the essential novel in my life. The prose is lyrical and beautiful, the structure is complex and rewarding, and the characters are so alive.

As if that weren't enough of a good reason to love and admire it, the bulk of the novel takes place in Detroit and Grosse Pointe, my hometown. I live only a few blocks from Middlesex (the street), I was married in the chapel at the girls' school attended by Cal, and perhaps most importantly and most ephemerally, I understand Eugenides' obsession with the place. To outsiders, it's a wealthy suburb of Detroit (a totally shallow mis-characterization, by the way); to me, and apparently to Eugenides as well, it's an incredibly magical place that is utterly haunted by its own history. It's a place that demands narrative -- I always joke that someday I'll write my "Grosse Pointe novel," if only because there are so many incredible stories and characters in this place.

Eugenides has unfairly been the focus of feminist criticism of the publishing industry -- critics have argued that if his books were written by women, they wouldn't get the same positive/academic attention, and that's possibly true. But even so, I'm not going to begrudge a male author for writing the female perspective so skillfully -- I will take Eugenides over John Updike, Philip Roth, or Jonathon Franzen any day. His ability to play with gender and to write simultaneously gendered and ambiguous perspectives is masterful, and the obvious influence of Jane Austen on his writing is endearing.

The Bookhive List is a weekly recommendation of my all-time favorite, must-read books.

Date Night: 'The Witches of Eastwick' by John Updike

I have read The Witches of Eastwick and I've watched the film adaptation starring Cher, Susan Sarandon, and MIchelle Pfeiffer; and after all that, I still can't decide if it's all about misogyny or misandry. Either way, ambiguities and challenges of sexuality and gender are on full display, and Cher wears overalls almost the whole time. 

The perfect date night with The Witches of Eastwick involves the audio book version, which will free up your hands for a fun craft, like making creepy voodoo dolls of local, quirky townsfolk you hate. Although Bookhive's "Date Night" itineraries are meant for one, you may want to gather a coven of friends for this one, because everyone knows that whenever women gather in groups of more than two, dark magic starts brewing (also menstruation syncs up). 

Your Witches of Eastwick Date Night meal should a hearty Rhode Island clam bisque and an elaborate mulled wine that you can "brew" in the slow cooker. Cackle as you throw spices into your pot. Whatever desert you chose should include apples, because witches are constantly accessorizing with apples (see also: Once Upon a Time on ABC).

Apparently the book was a huge departure for John Updike, which I can't speak to because I've only read one other book by him (Brazil) and it was equally wacky and misogynist/misandrist (?) and also almost certainly very racist. When I read The Witches of Eastwick, I was simultaneously drawn to it and completely repulsed by it, and I had a similar experience with the film. Both are very strange and very worth your time. 

Date Night is a recurring post of my recommendations for a curated evening at home with a good book. Solitude is assumed and preferred. 

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Bookhive Afield

I've been thinking a lot about travelling and books lately, as I get ready to depart for five days in Oregon. My focus will certainly be on my sister's wedding and quality time with friends and family, but I can't travel without something good to read, and the flight from Detroit to Portland is long enough to plow through an average sized novel.

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